Thursday, March 14, 2024

slave games

What happens when you have a creative Master who invites another Master and another slave?

Nothing good for the slave indeed! Recently Master suprised me with a visit of guests. But the twist was that not only another Master was invited but also another slave who both didn't knew each other! I can tell you in another post more about the evening. But the highlight were definitly the slave games! Master had designed a game where I and the other sub had to roll the dice for tasks and rounds. For example: If your dice showed 17 and 4 it could mean that you would do task 17 for 4 times! You never knew what was behind a number. The slaves also had to choose which Master should perform the task. The trick was that the Sirs had also choosen half of the tasks each. For example if my Master had choosen task 17 than I would get double the points if I choose Him for performing the task, otherwise only half. 

Thursday, February 29, 2024

Meeting THE Dominus


Recently Master and I where in Berlin where we had the honor of meeting THE Dominus, Master André. As usually Master loves to keep me in the dark about whom we are meeting and when we are meeting other Doms or subs. This was also the case recently.

Saturday, January 6, 2024

Highlights of 2023 and outlook to 2024

Looking back on 2023 I can say it was over all a good year. We met new people in the BDSM world online and offline and managed to stay in contact with people we have been knowing for years. If I think about it, there were also several highlights in this year. This summer we managed to perform more outdoor events than ever!

Thursday, December 21, 2023

Jealousy in a D/s relationship? - Slaves article

Can there be jealousy in a D/s relationship? And if so - is it any different from any non D/s relationship? 

First of all I think every couple experiences jealousy totally differently, wheter you are gay/straight and vanilla/kinky. So I can only talk about how I experience it and see it with others.

The rules are clear: Master is free in His sex and "play"-life, His slave is not. So Sir has no reason to ask me or even tell me when He fucks or uses another sub. We are both totally clear about that! On the other hand I have no say in my sex or "play"-life, it is totally controlled by Master.

Saturday, December 16, 2023

The joy of being a slave during winter

I honestly love winter time. I don't need winter every day for 365 days a year. But I really enjoy those few months we get winter a year. There are several reasons for that. First of all because it is cold outside and it gets dark early Master prefers to stay home more often than in summer. That means a lot more time for His slave to worship Him! Of course I worship and serve Master every day. But in winter I get to worship/lick Sir more often than in summer. 

Thursday, November 30, 2023

What happens when the slave is not in the "head space"?

One of our followers on Telegram asked us recently what happens if the slave was not in the submissive head space. First all of this happens very rarely. I consider myself as a natural born slave and my Master as a natural born Superior, so I am not in certain head spaces - I am just living my submissive live. Serving my Master is natural to me. But of course there are times when serving is harder, because of hard weeks at work, private problems, health reasons etc.

Thursday, November 16, 2023

What I understand with financial domination

I have to be honest. It is a delicate topic but I want to give it a try - also because you wanted an article about my thoughts about Findom or my thoughts about the fincancially aspect in the BDSM Lifestyle:
I understand with financial domination (findom) something else then the most people. Perhaps I should call it differently in my opinion like "economical domination"? Furtheremore there is a huge crux with financial domination which occurs with domination/ownership and exploitation!
How can you dominate or own a slave financialy without "exploiting" the slave. Perhaps I should call it: How can you dominate a slave financially in an ethical way?
Therefore this is a perfect topic for a blogpost.