The BDSM Lifestyle
This is the blog of a gay-couple who lives in an BDSM-Relationship and share their experience, minds and thoughts about the lifestyle in living BDSM.
Thursday, April 11, 2024
Getting used to be bred and milked
Thursday, April 4, 2024
BDSM & Kissing
Thursday, March 28, 2024
serving without any sexual attraction
Thursday, March 14, 2024
slave games
Nothing good for the slave indeed! Recently Master suprised me with a visit of guests. But the twist was that not only another Master was invited but also another slave who both didn't knew each other! I can tell you in another post more about the evening. But the highlight were definitly the slave games! Master had designed a game where I and the other sub had to roll the dice for tasks and rounds. For example: If your dice showed 17 and 4 it could mean that you would do task 17 for 4 times! You never knew what was behind a number. The slaves also had to choose which Master should perform the task. The trick was that the Sirs had also choosen half of the tasks each. For example if my Master had choosen task 17 than I would get double the points if I choose Him for performing the task, otherwise only half.
Thursday, February 29, 2024
Meeting THE Dominus
Saturday, January 6, 2024
Highlights of 2023 and outlook to 2024
Thursday, December 21, 2023
Jealousy in a D/s relationship? - Slaves article
First of all I think every couple experiences jealousy totally differently, wheter you are gay/straight and vanilla/kinky. So I can only talk about how I experience it and see it with others.
The rules are clear: Master is free in His sex and "play"-life, His slave is not. So Sir has no reason to ask me or even tell me when He fucks or uses another sub. We are both totally clear about that! On the other hand I have no say in my sex or "play"-life, it is totally controlled by Master.